When you forgive, it means you are letting go of the wrong that was done to you. You are trying to forget it, and truly with time, you will forget it.But if and only if you truly forgave that person, and if you try not to remember.
Forgetting happens with time. Whenever your mind is starting to remember that thing, keep it busy and divert your thinking, and make use of the time by dhikr of Allah rather than keep remembering it again and again.
Forgetting it is a matter of time, and you finally will…BUT don’t forget what it taught you in life, the mistake you did, try not to forget it so that you don’t repeat it again.
Also, saying Audhubillah whenever you remember such things helps too.
So in short, forgetting will come with your striving to try and forget it. And let time do its work. Have a blessed day!
Written by: Sr. Amatullah B.M.
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